Yes! you are a very ambitious and determined young man/woman, who truly knows where his going and who is ready to achieve his dreams at all cost. Kudos to that! But it's not just enough to be ambitious and determined.
There are basic rules to success that must and needs to be followed. You don't just sit at a place being isolated,knowing and communicating every now and then with just the same people you've always known,accepting requests online without viewing a person's profile to know what he/she has got to offer you(yes! That really matters a lot).....etc.
You have to mingle with people,meet new faces and characters, attend seminar ,associate with people of like minds,look for friends who share the same idea with you and partner with them, get to meet better people... People who are much more intellectually sound than you are and learn from them....visit online sites ,ask questions and read up articles pertaining to what you want to do...then start doing something no matter how small and begin to offer services.
While doing all this,you don't necessarily need to start pleasing anybody whosoever,you don't need to go out of your way for anybody neither do you have to push it so hard or be a torn in the flesh... No! Just be yourself! Be on the necessary pace...just be committed to achieving your dreams and they will be happy around you... In fact they would even value the friendship more than you do.
Mind you ---everybody around you mustn't be called "friend".You could have course mates, colleague, lodge mates, acquaintance,etc. You
must be very very very selective with those you call " friends" because they could either make you or Mar you. Anybody can qualify to be your "hello -Hi friend" but only few should qualify to be in your inner circle,that is, the people you actually refer to as "friends".
must be very very very selective with those you call " friends" because they could either make you or Mar you. Anybody can qualify to be your "hello -Hi friend" but only few should qualify to be in your inner circle,that is, the people you actually refer to as "friends".
Friends are those who are always around you,therefore,they influence the major parts of your life. They are those who share the same idea with you,who truly has something worthwhile to offer,whom you can learn from, who is not jealous but passionate about your career and one who is ambitious and determined to be successful(it doesn't have to be your peer group, they could be people older than you are) Those in your inner circle must have a burning desire for success! Not just someone who is not concerned about his future, who just sits back everyday waiting for a miracle. Even if such people are just "two" trust me! It's better having just them than having "500" friends who have nothing tangible to offer as regards where you are heading to.
Even your social media friends matters a lot. So many persons have been inspired and risen to their feet because of one post or the other from a social media friend. Stop accepting just anyhow requests from people whose wall are only filled with pictures and psalm 121 or Ecclesiastes chapter 5 Vs 3 to complement it,new clothes and new style of posture.
Stop accepting anyhow requests just because you want to be having " 500 likes and 250 comments " on your photos and posts. Accept friends who have information to offer you and people who truly knows and utilizes the use of social media. This would lead me to my next talk"self development"
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